I caught up with Twitter buddy Stanley Field and asked him a few personal questions.
Can you remember the first time you jacked-off?
I was experimenting at home in the loo — I must have been around 13.
How did you feel when you first jacked off?
When I jacked off for the first time, I hadn’t begun to make semen yet. The delight of my dry ejaculation was amazing.
Did you talk about it with anyone?
I talked with my mates, and a neighbour who was my age. My mates were already able to produce semen as their physical maturity was a little bit further along than mine. I was so envious.
Did you try any different techniques in those early years?
I have my foreskin, so lube was something I didn’t think about. I guess I must have used some different techniques, as I’d cum many times each day.
Can you remember the first time you talked to someone else about jacking off?
First time I discussed it was with my brother-in-law’s brother. He was a year younger than me, and we would sometimes beat together. I remember he had an ugly willy.
How has your jack-off style evolved over the years?
Evolution came with experience and a good helping of the internet. Who ever heard of sounds, let alone nipple-clamps and cock rings.
What’s your preferred way to jack-off currently?
I’ve slowed down with wanking. Postponing ejaculation often, so I can share intimacy with another man. I like the quality of sharing, rather than a large quantity of solo tugs. I do now enjoy some lube though.
What jack-off hints or tips would you give a young guy just starting to explore his sexuality?
Have it all. Enjoy it all. Stay tender — go gently with your willy, remember he has to last your lifetime. Use toys, clamps, sounds, condoms to see what really curls up your toes. Watch how your partners pleasure themselves, and try their techniques too. Most of all, enjoy your body and mind so that you build awareness of you. Your likes, dislikes, hot spots and ‘not’ spots.